In the very first post of this blog, named Psychology of Cuckolds and Cuckqueans, I discussed as to how a cuckold’s pleasure (of his wife mating with another man) is an echo of the pleasure his wife derives while mating with another man. In the last post (please read it if you have not read it already; you’ll need that background for this post), I used a home brew relationship graph to represent a cuckold-cuckoldress-bull dynamics.
In this post, let’s take a closer look at a “cuckquean-husband-other woman” dynamics.
If a cuckquean (violet) behaves like a cuckold, she would get her sexual pleasure as an echo of the sexual pleasure derived by her husband (blue) derives by engaging another woman (pink). However, this is less common among cuckqueans.
Interestingly, since men are mostly seen as pleasure givers and women are mostly seen as pleasure receivers, the cuckquean typically derives here pleasures as echo of the sexual pleasure received by the other woman. This becomes easy if a reasonably strong bond of intimacy exists between the cuckquean and the other woman. Such intimacy builds a spiritual bridge between the two woman which helps one woman to feel one with the emotions felt by the other woman.
If the intimacy or emotional connection between the cuckquean and the other woman is weak or non-existent or if certain level of animosity or competition exists between the two, then very often the cuckquean might completely refrain from eroticising the pleasure of the second/third party coitus. Of course, unless the cuckquean happens to eroticise the humiliation of being preferred by her husband/partner for another woman!
While a typical cuckquean might derive strong echo of the sexual pleasure received by the other woman (the pleasure receiver), it is very possible that the cuckquean derives sexual pleasure by echoing the pleasure felt by her husband (the pleasure giver) too.
That way, it looks to me that a cuckquean receives a double whammy of pleasures when she witnesses her partner with another woman. This must be more intense than the pleasure felt my a male cuckold (who receives all his pleasure from the single source: his wife/partner). Though, there is no evidence to make draw this conclusion.
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In regards to the section at the bottom: “At heart, I suspect that I am a polyamorist. But where I live, it is lot easier to fuck the brains out of the woman, while her husband is sitting next to us watching, than to hold hands with her in the broad day light.
Someday, I will have my relationships. Till then, I’ll just have sex.”
I can tell if this was written by the author of this blog, but if so, I feel that this comment strongly negates the beautiful and eloquent blog you just wrote about the spiritual merging of you partner. I thought the point was that you don’t have strong connections to the other women????